I have been getting into micro-blogging as a way to self promote and to share ideas. Twitter and Facebook status updates served me well over the past couple of years. When I don’t have time to write a long blog post, micro-blogging allows me to share links and observations easily. I started out using Facebook status updates, but recently I made the decision: I was going to stop using Facebook entirely and do all of my micro-blogging on Twitter.
I could go on and on about how much I’ve grown to distrust Facebook but even as I was writing out a long discussion about what I don’t like about it I got exhausted and bored, so here’s the top five reasons I stopped using Facebook:
1. Exposure
I use micro-blogging to help with promotion of my work. If people follow my tweets they are more likely to RSS my blog and to link back to my blog. Facebook, being a closed system means that I will only be talking to the people that I already know. Yes, I could have a public Facebook page, but it’s still in the clutches of the evil empire. The genius of Twitter is that it’s open and it’s everywhere.
2. Critique
As I mention in #1, the only people who read my stuff on Facebook are the people that I already know. This means when I post photographs, I get the wonderful and supportive comments from my friends and family. This is a great ego boost, but in reality sometimes you need strangers who have no vested interest in you personally to tell you that your photo sucks. I have lots of people to tell me what I’m doing right. To improve I need people to tell me what I’m doing wrong.
3. Tedious Friend Requests
One of the things that I can’t stand about Facebook is the ubiquitous Friend Request. Sure, it is neat to hear from a long lost friend or reconnect with someone who slipped off your radar. However, 90% of the friend requests that I get are either people I barely talked to in high school who friend me simply because they recognize my name on someone else’s list, or they are coworkers who think it’s necessary to friend me even though they see me every day. The former usually never even go beyond clicking the friend button, and the latter use Facebook to resend me the same email chain letters and internet hoaxes that they’ve polluted my email inbox with. When someone wants to follow me on Twitter, they don’t have to ask my permission.
4. The Illusion of Privacy
The reason that it’s ok that total strangers follow me on Twitter is because I’m not posting anything on Twitter that I want to keep private. As a culture, I think most people who Twitter understand that. Facebook users do not. I am constantly amazed at what people post on Facebook. Do you have an intimate knowledge of all 459 of the people on your friend list? Do you trust their internet security practices? Are any of your friends likely to say something you don’t want your other friends, family, or coworkers to read?
Facebook recently changed their privacy policies from private by default, to public by default. Gawker has the full run-down.
5. Facebook sucks
Need more proof? Take a look at this growing list of issues that have surfaced over the last few years about Facebook.
I’m not starting some big, anti-Facebook campaign. I haven’t deactivated my Facebook account. Not that it would matter if I did, because the Facebook user agreements mean that they own my data and can keep it forever. I am no longer updating my account though. I just don’t feel comfortable using it anymore.
I think that Twitter is a better way to go.